Wednesday, February 13, 2008

人都是自私的??!!

今天有点儿生气,明明知道不应该但还是生气,告诉自己不要常常埋怨,但还是忍不住!

有个 group project,在这星期一,甲人问我看要不要呈交“某某”part 的功课,我第一反应是:糟糕!新年里我把所有功课都忘了!(当然,我并没有喊出来。)经过向 lecturer 询问后,发现原来不需要呈交,但却要准备好资料,所以我们就决定要讨论以做资料准备,后来甲人还建议不如直接把功课做完,干净利落嘛!在这讨论期间,乙人缺席了,我无所谓,新年嘛,大家都想多放几天假。

今天,乙人问起为何讨论功课没等她(甲&乙人都是女的。)时,甲人竟然说是我及我姐姐 (这个 project 我与我姐都是同一组的) 自己算的(功课是一种算式作业),她(甲人)只负责打报告!她并没有解释是教授要求的,所以我们只好先讨论!虽然她所说的是事实,但不是事实的全部!提出需要完成功课的人是甲人,先决定要直接把功课做完的人也是甲人,干嘛把所有的东西推向我们两姐妹, 当成是我们抢着把功课完成??!!她的语气就说明我们故意把功课先做完,不等其他人。

大家应该会好奇,为什么有人帮忙自己把功课做完还会惹起不满... 这应该是好事嘛! 不是吗?--------其实, 这个project 最后阶段有一个 presentation, 大家都不希望被推挤出来当 presentor 嘛!

甲人... 这个人真是会利用"语言的漏洞", 简单的解释都没有,我还能说什么呢?佩服佩服,同时也不敢恭维!

不要误会甲人,她也是个好人,也会帮助别人,只是在有"利益"冲突时,会有自我保护,自私的举动!难道真的是“人不为己天诛地灭”??!!

5 comments:

(e+ho)ng said...

I guess you were pretty bitter about these project, eh?

Took me by surprise as you were still smiling when we talked through the telephone just now.

Anyway, just complete the project for the last time and I shall welcome you back to Penang!

If you need any help on English, just email them to me, OK? :)

nahneit said...

it's good for u to experience some politics in school so u will learn to protect urself in the future when u step into the society...scary not? lolz.

永远保持宽容的心就好了. =)

靖璇 said...

hoe tien han:

Ha Ha!

Yup, it's true. There are various kind of people in this world.

Sometimes you think you understand well about one person but he/she can still surprising you anytime...

靖璇 said...

(e+ho)ng:

Hei, how are you doing?

Don't worry about me so much...and take care yourself good good oh!

Be ready for my return to Penang! What gift you have for my graduation?? Ha Ha!!

(e+ho)ng said...

I have yet to decide what to give you for your graduation. :D